I Went to Burning Man Solo and Pregnant… and I’d Do It Again

When I was around 6 months pregnant, I decided that Bump and I needed a little excitement. I had been spending too much time inside- nauseous for the first trimester, and exhausted (due to anemia) for the second trimester. I was also a little depressed from the lack of involvement from the baby’s father. Aside from work, my social life had dwindled. I needed adventure.

So, we made our way out to Burning Man- just Bump and I.

By now, I’m used to people telling me that many of my decisions are probably not a good idea. But, if I would have listened to them, I never would have had as much fun as I have!! This was one of those times for people who had never been to Burning Man to be opinionated about my decision to go to Burning Man pregnant.

But, I wasn’t going to let 100 plus degree weather, desert dust and peoples’ opinions stop me and Bump from going to my third Burn and feeling the LOVE!

So, I researched and planned how I could safely Burn. I felt like I was blindly navigating, because I had never been pregnant before, didn’t know how I’d react to the heat or the alkaline dust, wasn’t finding information on women going to the Burn pregnant, or any services that would be offered for pregnant women. I started to question my decision again.

I finally reached out to some midwives, who were part of a holistic practice (and had also been to BM before). I didn’t want to reach out to the hospital, because I had already experienced some of their fear-based birthing. I didn’t need any more people holding me back! The midwives told me that since I was a low-risk pregnancy, it could be done. They said to stay hydrated, not to be in the sun for too long, get plenty of rest and exercise.

Okay! I started feeling good about my decision again!

After hours of scouring the inter-web, I was tremendously relieved to come across this blog post about Megan from Carrots and Flowers going to Burning Man the year before, at just one week before her due date! This was the post that gave me the final boost of confidence to head out to the Playa. Thank you, Megan! What a beautiful story. I wish I was able to get more super cute photos like Megan did! But, I got lost in the moment..

After reading, I was motivated, but still a little hesitant to go alone. But, I felt like some good vibes, dancing, inspiration and lots of loooove was crucial for me and Bump… so, off we went!

In my usual fashion, I made this decision last minute. I didn’t have enough time to join a camp or coordinate with friends. So, I packed up my truck with essentials, and headed out to Reno without a ticket. I made it all the way to the Reno Walmart, and spent hours asking people for a ticket. The only person who actually had one looked at me suspiciously, because I was alone, bugging her at 4 AM in Reno. I guess I don’t blame her.

I gave up around 4:30 AM, and started heading towards Lovelock. I stopped along the way and took a nap in a parking lot. In the morning, I saw that several other people were trying to get a ticket, but I still took it as an opportunity to meet some cool people and hang out. After hours of talking to people and looking for a ticket, I finally made my way through the heavy line.

At will call, a bunch of last minute people were also looking for a miracle. I figured my luck wouldn’t go too far competing with all those people.So, I grabbed some shade and water, and I walked into the desert, down the long line of cars and flew a sign. It was about an hour and till somebody waved me down… and…. I was gifted a miracle!

It was already Wednesday when I got in, so I drove the perimeter to look for a group to camp with.

Usually, I put a middle finger up to many “societal norms”. But, to be honest I was a little self-conscious of people judging me for not taking care of myself or the Bump. But why? I didn’t want to skip out on some much-needed love and community just because I was pregnant! And, you shouldn’t either.

Turns out, most burners thought it was radical that I had the courage to come out to the playa pregnant and solo. The only negative comment I got was from a girl who walked by me saying, “You’re pregnant! Get off the playa!” It was a good thing she had already walked by before I realized what she said.. This is my body, my baby and not only should Burners be exercising radical inclusion, but I was radically self expressing myself by being there!


That being said…….

If you are considering going to Burning Man while pregnant, please first check with your healthcare provider. If you get a pass, all is well with you and you feel healthy and confident, here are some things I recommend (also check on the Burning Man website for more info):


Shade- Make sure you have some kind of sturdy shade for your camp that won’t blow away in a dust storm. Feel free to take a seat ANYWHERE that has shade, and rest often while you explore! Also, definitely have shade while you’re walking or biking around the desert. Bring a hat, sarong to cover up and you can even get your sarong wet and drape it over yourself to keep you cool.

Water- Bring at least 1 gallon of drinking water per person, per day. I also highly recommend a spray bottle (throw a little lavender essential oil in for a nice touch) so that you can keep your body temperature down, which is crucial. Electrolytes are also a great idea- watermelon, coconut water, emergen-c are great options.

Medical help- Always know where you can locate first aid! Also, check on the book for midwives camped nearby, or ask around!

Food- I almost always carried protein/iron/nutrient dense snacks. I had anemia during my pregnancy, so I had to always have lots of iron (and Vitamin C to absorb that iron better). Don’t forget your pregnancy vitamins and probiotics! You should be radically self sufficient. But, it’s always fun to look into what food options are offered around the playa.

Exercise- Burning Man is a great place to get some much needed exercise in for you pregos! Okay, to be honest, I was being lazy when I was at the house. But, I made up for all of that on the playa, riding my bike everywhere! Aside from riding the bicycle, I danced my ass off! Again, please be sure you are healthy, have no medical issues, have the okay by your doctor to be exercising, have enough shade, water and know when to stop and rest. I feel that music, dancing and so much loooove is essential for a developing little human. I didn’t go to any parties that were too loud, and I made sure that I camped at 6:00, away from designated music areas.

Camp- If you’re not going with a camp, you’ll want to camp with or near some people that are aware of your pregnancy in case you need anything. If you’re a virgin (a Burning Man virgin, cuz we know you’re not a virgin virgin– wink, wink), you’ll want to camp with some people who have been before. Look into joining an established theme camp, or go with some friends and make your own camp! Or, you can be bold and go solo, and camp with some people you meet along the way, or when you’re in!

If you’re reading this and you want to do a rendition- Listen to your body, listen to your intuition, follow your heart. GO HOME! Don’t let society stop you (unless of course, you’re a high-risk pregnancy). Prepare, have fun, rest, get dusty, dance to some music, hug it out,


Yeah, Climate Strike Is Great, but How Can We Be More Effective? Here’s 10 Ways to Lower Your Carbon Footprint Today:

On September 20th, the earth shook as 4 million people made their way into the streets to strike for our climate. Our destructive consumerist behavior in this throwaway culture has accelerated climate change, leaving the youth concerned about the fate of their future.

I heard about the strike through social media the night before, so I grabbed some paint and a couple boards I scored from a different protest, peeled off the letter stickers, painted (not-so-pretty signs) and hit the streets!

Strike with us!

The sad thing was, I was the only one I saw with a sign the whole day. I guess I missed the small group that was protesting in my hometown, so I walked around holding signs for a while before I had to head out of town.

On the way out of town, they wanted to stop at an outlet mall. I thought about when I briefly worked at an outlet mall as a teen, and hated it. This time, I walked around wearing my earth cape and refused to buy anything on this day when millions of people around the world were striking for our climate. It was just so sad to see people mindlessly buying, and either not caring or oblivious to the destruction we’re doing.

People fighting for a Television on Black Friday…

I understand… I used to mindlessly buy things I didn’t need all the time! It used to satisfy me. And even though I was Co-President of The Environmental Club in middle school (nerd), I didn’t stop to make the obvious connection that buying things contributed to our global pollution problem!

But I can’t go back to the way I was, after all that I’ve learned.

After extensively studying the effects of consumerism for my Master’s thesis, I am always thinking about where our products come from, where they go and what impacts they have on the planet. This is why you can find me in the store, staring at the olive oil for 20 minutes.

How do you tell if a person is stoned?
This is probably what I look like while grocery shopping.

I know that you wanna treat yo self, and you also just want to make things easy, especially if you’re a parent! I’m not saying you shouldn’t. I want to enjoy my life too! I just want to share some information and ideas.

And although I’ve become a conscious consumer, I still buy things that’s aren’t the best for our earth or for other people. Sometimes we don’t have access to sustainable products, or we are just busy and need convenience. We don’t always have time to go across town to the farmer’s market, the co-op, or the thrift store. We don’t always have time or money to get all the good stuff from Whole Foods in our bulk bags.

Check out this book by Kelsey Timmerman that will change your life:

Kelsey shares a passion for finding out where food comes from!

I often feel guilty shopping for new stuff, because I think about how much of it could have been made by a slave in a sweatshop that dumps toxic waste into freshwater sources, and tons of crap into the atmosphere.

A woman collects plastic bottles in a river where dye is directly discharged from a paper factory nearby. A survey in 2005 found that only 47 percent of water in China’s major rivers is drinkable, and half of all lakes are heavily polluted.
March 25, 2005. Dongxiang, Jiangxi Province. (AP Photo)

Although it’s hard to imagine a life free of waste and pollution, there are some reasonable things you can do to help reduce global pollution and your carbon footprint:


Here’s a sea turtle, mistaking a plastic bottle for some tasty kelp… yum, yum.

Aside from toxic factory pollution from the sheer volume of packaging and products we routinely go through, most people don’t consider where their trash and recycling go once it’s out of sight. Our busy, throwaway, consumer lifestyle has trained us to turn a blind eye while we go about our day. We somehow have become okay with digging a hole in the earth and hiding our trash, and we just assume that “recycling” means it will get processed into usable material.

Amazingly, roughly 75% of the population in the US that recycle. But, did you know that of the 34.5 million tons of solid waste produced in the USA each year, only NINE PERCENT is actually recycled?


That means that 26.01 million tons of recyclable PLASTIC goes into our landfill every year…. This doesn’t include the 8 MILLION METRIC TONS of plastic that goes into our oceans every year!

Marine animals get tangled up in fishing nets, plastic waste and are consuming enough plastic to the point of dying. Smaller fish are eating micro-plastics, and it works it’s way up the food chain to us humans. Yep, we eat plastic!

The best thing we can do is REDUCE our waste by not buying as many things to begin with. Not only do we save material from going to the landfill, but we reduce the amount of raw materials that need to be extracted from the earth in the first place! Another reason to reduce and reuse is because a LOT of the factories that produce our stuff have no environmental regulation and just spew toxic crap into freshwater (well, not fresh anymore), the air and soil.

A great way to reduce is to reuse bags, cups, mugs, containers, etc. Which leads me to…..


Making the conscious effort to reuse materials can be easy, we just need to be more mindful of where we can make the changes and make habits out of it. It’s sometimes hard to make the time in our busy lives to go 100% zero waste (in my case, too busy as a single mom to always be able to use cloth diapers). But, I’m trying and I make some effort everyday.

I’ve made a pretty healthy habit of using my stainless steel water bottle, my cloth grocery bags, my bulk and produce bags and my container for the salad bar (they can tare the weight at the register before you fill it). You can also find some fun products like these vegan beeswax wraps or reusable snack bags.

Upcycling is when you take something that might otherwise be thrown in the landfill or recycling and breathe new life into it. If you get creative, you can personalize a unique item and bypass all of the energy used in the recycling process. Here’s an old t-shirt, up-cycled into a produce bag:


As we already know, only 9% of plastic put in recycling bins in the US is actually recycled. Other recyclables have a higher percentage, but recycling is still not as effective as we think it is. I’ve always thought that throwing it into the recycling bin is much better than landfill, but it turns out that most of the plastics end up in landfill or waterways anyway!

Let’s think harder about where we can reduce and reuse before we toss it into the recycling bin!


I love thrift shopping! Years ago (after my Fashion Institute years), I stopped my habit of constantly buying NEW trendy clothes and accessories. I started to realize that every dollar I spent would either support or boycott certain industries or practices. VOTE WITH YOUR DOLLAR!

Buying second hand will not only offer you some really cool, unique things, it will also decrease the demand for new clothing from factories that have no environmental regulation. The less new stuff we buy, the less toxins they’ll spew into the environment, and the less resources it’ll take to get you fitted. Also, instead of clothing going to landfill, it gets another life in someone else’s wardrobe!


VOTE WITH YOUR DOLLAR! Farmer’s Markets are great for so many reasons! Not only do you get a bunch of tasty, seasonal, diverse, organic, locally grown food, but you also lower your carbon footprint! And more often than not, you get to meet the people who actually grew your food and ask them questions.

As I look at some bananas on my desk, I wonder about their journey. Where did they grow? Sticker says “Mexico”. Who grew them? I don’t know, but it says they were “fairly traded”. They traveled many food miles* to get here, in trucks, boats, maybe even planes! They probably were packaged, passed through many hands and lands, un-packaged and passed through many more hands before they got to be on the shelf that I picked them up from.

That shit is bananas! B-A-N-A-N-A-S! So, okay… I might have to reconsider bananas.

When shopping at the farmer’s market, you can go shopping, guilt free, knowing that the food miles are minimal. You can also give yourself a pat on the back for not supporting large-scale industrial farming techniques that aren’t so na-na-natural for the earth. MONO-CROPPING IS TERRIBLE FOR THE EARTH!

*Food miles is the distance that food travels from source to consumer. They’re one of the factors considered when considering the environmental impact of food.


Not only are you diverting food waste from landfill (where it won’t compost for a long time, and will actually give off greenhouse gases in the meantime), but you are creating delicious organic matter that is GOLD for growing plants, and for the soil.

You can find or make different vessels to suit your living space. Compost can nourish your garden, but if you don’t have a garden, find a local farm, garden or neighbor that would take your scraps. Otherwise, toss it in your city green bin.


There are so many benefits to growing your own food! You’ll reduce your carbon footprint by reducing the food miles and the amount of resources needed to package and distribute your food to your plate.

You become so connected with your food and with the earth when you grow it yourself.

Even if you live in an apartment, you can grow some of your own food! Try a vertical garden by your windowsill or balcony, or see if there’s a community garden nearby that you can join. Or maybe start with one potted herb that can grow in your windowsill and grow from there!


You can use your upcycled t-shirt bags to buy things in bulk! Search around your area to find stores that offer bulk foods.

I love shopping in bulk when I can, because it reduces packaging and saves money. I use cloth bags at the store, and then transfer the goods into jars when I get home.


Many people disagree with the idea that humans should be eating less beef and dairy, but the reality is that the livestock industry is the biggest contributor to climate change!

The global livestock industry emits more greenhouse gases than all cars, trucks, trains, boats and planes combined. Beef and dairy alone make up 65% of all livestock emissions, with pork coming in second.

Farming livestock is also a major factor in the decline of biodiversity. Forests and native lands are being cleared for ranching and to grow feed, usually mono-cropped. We NEED biodiversity for so many reasons- soil health, resilience to pests and disease, diverse flora and fauna, resilience to natural disasters, saving water, etc. Factory farming also drains local freshwater to grow grain for animals.

There are farms that practice more sustainable methods of farming, like letting their animals graze. But, let’s all reduce our meat consumption, starting with Meatless Monday! Can you dedicate one day of your week to eating no meat?


Although agriculture takes the cake on carbon emissions, there’s no doubting that our reliance on fossil fuels is taking it’s toll on Mother Earth.

For many in cities, there’s the luxury of public transportation, or even being able to use those boots for walkin’ to everything you need! But, with a family, dogs, a busy lifestyle, a spread out lifestyle, it can be difficult to plan life around the bus schedule.

If you can’t ditch the whip, try to become more mindful of your driving habits and where you can cut down. Fit as many activities/errands in each trip as you can. Walk or ride your bike more, if you can.

The problem here is… I LOVE TO TRAVEL! And I plan on doing a lot more of it. I recently read about a couple who offsets their carbon emissions by planting trees every time they fly somewhere. I’m going to do this!


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That Time My 1983 Four Wheel Truck Camper Flew off… on the Freeway!!!

Literally 9 days after I bought my prized pop-up truck camper, it flew off of my truck as I was going 60mph on the freeway.

The guy I bought it from, who was supposedly an engineer, secured it onto my truck using only two ratchet straps in the back, and said it was safe. I questioned him… “are you sure this will be enough?” “It’ll be fine. We traveled for one year like that, no problem.” Being the idiot that I am, I just took his word for it.

I should have done a little more research… And maybe… I dunno… maybe I should have looked at where the anchors attached to the rotten wood.

The anchor points were brand new, shiny D rings that he had previously drilled into the old wood. The ratchet straps connected the D rings to my truck bed.

I was stoked! Sure, she was old and rugged, but I was going to fix her up and have many adventures with her! We cleaned, painted a base layer inside, stripped old flooring, bought hardware and fabric for upholstery and curtains.

A few days later, unsuspectingly driving down the freeway, dog in the camper, I looked in the rear view and saw the bottom of my camper in mid air!

In shock, I pulled over and turned my head.

The camper was upside down, in the middle of the freeway!

Was everyone alive?? Was my dog ok??

I held my breath. A moment later, she walked out of the front door, unfazed.

With 9-1-1 on the phone, I got the dog in the car, and got out to figure out how to get the camper off the road. To my amazement, a bunch of people got out of their cars and lifted the camper off the freeway in a matter of minutes.

When the CHP showed up, he had to use his car’s grill guard to push the camper even further off the road. He then told me I should take the exit and wait there for the tow truck. Half joking, I said, “I hope no one steals my camper!”

The friend I was meeting up with knew about the situation and called me back to tell me that he was pretty sure he saw someone loading it onto their tow truck! But, the tow company driver said he wouldn’t be there for another 45 min.


It was getting dark when I drove over to see what was going on, but I clearly saw that the camper wasn’t where the CHP had pushed it.

Holy shit… it was gone!

I took off down the freeway looking for the P.O.S. that stole my camper.

Three exits down, I decided I wouldn’t catch the thief. I pulled off to turn back around, and got a call from the CHP dispatch. They called to tell me that they had CalTrans drag it back even further off the road, about 100 feet. I laughed at myself for chasing nobody.

And as if ol’ Betsy hadn’t been through enough, the CalTrans people said they were going to have to damage it even more if I wanted them to get it into their yard the next day.

At 9am sharp, I called them. They said they would have to drag it onto their tow truck, and then use machinery to flip it right-side-up at the yard. Poor Betsy. I went to assess the damage.

She wasn’t looking pretty.

But, I was determined to bring her home and fix her up!

It took about a week for me to figure out how I’d get it onto my truck. With a little help from some friends, I finally got it on and somehow into my family’s yard. Whew.

It’s been over two months now, and being so busy, I haven’t been able to finish. But, I finished painting, got some help replacing the floor, windows and the door the CHP smashed in.

Now, all that’s left is replacing the mechanism that holds the canvas up on one side, patching a hole in the roof and the best part…. replacing part of the floor pack, so there’s a solid anchor. Seems a little daunting for me, someone who has no idea what I’m doing.

And this is me just doing the bare minimum. My friends are suggesting I rebuild the entire frame. I would love to go trigger-happy with some power tools, and brush up on my welding skills, but it’s just not gonna happen.

If you are looking to buy an old camper, and have no idea what you’re doing, learn from my mistake! Make sure you INSPECT! INSPECT! INSPECT!

I thought I did enough research before heading down there, but obviously I’m a fool. I should have ran away when I saw some mold, but honestly, I didn’t really consider the implications. I didn’t think it looked too bad, and I’d bleach the mold and seal up whatever leaks there were. How naive I was!!!

This is where the D-Ring Ripped out.

I was so gung ho about having my home on wheels, that I didn’t even think about how weak the wooden frame could have been, or if the anchors were secure. I just assumed that these nice people wouldn’t send me off with a wreck waiting to happen.

Maybe if I had four tie downs connecting the metal jack stand plates to the metal truck frame, it wouldn’t have flipped off on the freeway… until next year. I should have listened to my gut and added more tie downs… or just not bought the damn thing in the first place.

And, if you didn’t already know: Always check for leaks, water damage and that you have a SECURE way to fasten the rig to your truck.

“Oh, is that what they meant when they said water damage is problematic?”

Especially after listening to this “engineer” tell me about their adventures through PNC, British Columbia and Alaska for the last year, I should have considered all of the moisture from that trip and just thanked his sweet parents and girlfriend for the tea and cookies, and took off running.

If you’re considering an old pop up camper, don’t let this deter you! They’re great, and are the perfect camper for my mid-sized truck. If you’re a total rookie, like me, bring someone who knows better. Or, check out this link I found after the accident:


More updates to come…

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